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 ## Contact
 
-I can be contacted through many methods but the most reliable and my most
-preferred will _always_ be email. In order of preference…
+I can be contacted through many methods but the most reliable, instance, and my
+most preferred will _always_ be XMPP. In order of preference…
 
-1. **Email:** `amolith@secluded.site`  
+1. **XMPP:** `amolith@secluded.site`
+2. **Email:** `amolith@secluded.site`  
    If you wanted encrypted email, my [age] public keys are [here on my
    website.](/age.keys)
-2. **XMPP:** `amolith@secluded.site`
 3. **IRC:** `amolith` on [Libera] and [NixNet]
 4. **Matrix:** `@_bifrost_amolith=40secluded.site:aria-net.org`  
    If you absolutely must contact me over Matrix, do so through an XMPP bridge